diff --git a/amethyst/src/main/java/com/vitorpamplona/amethyst/service/relayClient/RelayProxyClientConnector.kt b/amethyst/src/main/java/com/vitorpamplona/amethyst/service/relayClient/RelayProxyClientConnector.kt
index 423dbb931..1cb1148e1 100644
--- a/amethyst/src/main/java/com/vitorpamplona/amethyst/service/relayClient/RelayProxyClientConnector.kt
+++ b/amethyst/src/main/java/com/vitorpamplona/amethyst/service/relayClient/RelayProxyClientConnector.kt
@@ -95,7 +95,10 @@ class RelayProxyClientConnector(
                     client.connect()
                 } else {
                     Log.d("ManageRelayServices", "Relay Services have changed, reconnecting relays that need to")
-                    client.reconnect(true)
+                    client.reconnect(
+                        onlyIfChanged = true,
+                        ignoreRetryDelays = true,
+                    )
                 }
             }.onStart {
                 Log.d("ManageRelayServices", "Resuming Relay Services")
diff --git a/quartz/src/commonMain/kotlin/com/vitorpamplona/quartz/nip01Core/relay/client/INostrClient.kt b/quartz/src/commonMain/kotlin/com/vitorpamplona/quartz/nip01Core/relay/client/INostrClient.kt
index 79b6a595d..6e86149b5 100644
--- a/quartz/src/commonMain/kotlin/com/vitorpamplona/quartz/nip01Core/relay/client/INostrClient.kt
+++ b/quartz/src/commonMain/kotlin/com/vitorpamplona/quartz/nip01Core/relay/client/INostrClient.kt
@@ -36,7 +36,10 @@ interface INostrClient {
 
     fun disconnect()
 
-    fun reconnect(onlyIfChanged: Boolean = false)
+    fun reconnect(
+        onlyIfChanged: Boolean = false,
+        ignoreRetryDelays: Boolean = false,
+    )
 
     fun isActive(): Boolean
 
@@ -78,7 +81,10 @@ object EmptyNostrClient : INostrClient {
 
     override fun disconnect() { }
 
-    override fun reconnect(onlyIfChanged: Boolean) { }
+    override fun reconnect(
+        onlyIfChanged: Boolean,
+        ignoreRetryDelays: Boolean,
+    ) { }
 
     override fun isActive() = false
 
diff --git a/quartz/src/commonMain/kotlin/com/vitorpamplona/quartz/nip01Core/relay/client/NostrClient.kt b/quartz/src/commonMain/kotlin/com/vitorpamplona/quartz/nip01Core/relay/client/NostrClient.kt
index a2fe4b705..2db300300 100644
--- a/quartz/src/commonMain/kotlin/com/vitorpamplona/quartz/nip01Core/relay/client/NostrClient.kt
+++ b/quartz/src/commonMain/kotlin/com/vitorpamplona/quartz/nip01Core/relay/client/NostrClient.kt
@@ -37,14 +37,15 @@ import kotlinx.coroutines.CoroutineScope
 import kotlinx.coroutines.DelicateCoroutinesApi
 import kotlinx.coroutines.Dispatchers
 import kotlinx.coroutines.FlowPreview
+import kotlinx.coroutines.flow.MutableStateFlow
 import kotlinx.coroutines.flow.SharingStarted
 import kotlinx.coroutines.flow.combine
+import kotlinx.coroutines.flow.debounce
 import kotlinx.coroutines.flow.flowOn
 import kotlinx.coroutines.flow.onEach
 import kotlinx.coroutines.flow.sample
 import kotlinx.coroutines.flow.stateIn
 import kotlinx.coroutines.launch
-import kotlinx.coroutines.sync.Mutex
 
 /**
  * The NostrClient manages Nostr relay operations, subscriptions, and event delivery. It maintains:
@@ -140,21 +141,35 @@ class NostrClient(
 
     override fun isActive() = isActive
 
-    val myReconnectMutex = Mutex()
+    class Reconnect(
+        val onlyIfChanged: Boolean,
+        val ignoreRetryDelays: Boolean,
+    )
 
-    override fun reconnect(onlyIfChanged: Boolean) {
-        if (myReconnectMutex.tryLock()) {
-            try {
-                if (onlyIfChanged) {
-                    relayPool.reconnectIfNeedsToORIfItIsTime()
+    val refreshConnection = MutableStateFlow(Reconnect(false, false))
+
+    @OptIn(FlowPreview::class)
+    val debouncingConnection =
+        refreshConnection
+            .debounce(200)
+            .onEach {
+                if (it.onlyIfChanged) {
+                    relayPool.reconnectIfNeedsTo(it.ignoreRetryDelays)
                 } else {
                     relayPool.disconnect()
                     relayPool.connect()
                 }
-            } finally {
-                myReconnectMutex.unlock()
-            }
-        }
+            }.stateIn(
+                scope,
+                SharingStarted.Eagerly,
+                false,
+            )
+
+    override fun reconnect(
+        onlyIfChanged: Boolean,
+        ignoreRetryDelays: Boolean,
+    ) {
+        refreshConnection.tryEmit(Reconnect(onlyIfChanged, ignoreRetryDelays))
     }
 
     fun needsToResendRequest(
@@ -250,7 +265,7 @@ class NostrClient(
             }
 
             // wakes up all the other relays
-            relayPool.reconnectIfNeedsToORIfItIsTime()
+            reconnect(true)
         }
     }
 
@@ -289,7 +304,7 @@ class NostrClient(
             }
 
             // wakes up all the other relays
-            relayPool.reconnectIfNeedsToORIfItIsTime()
+            reconnect(true)
         }
     }
 
@@ -301,7 +316,7 @@ class NostrClient(
             relayPool.getRelay(connectedRelay)?.send(event)
 
             // wakes up all the other relays
-            relayPool.reconnectIfNeedsToORIfItIsTime()
+            reconnect(true)
         }
     }
 
@@ -315,7 +330,7 @@ class NostrClient(
             relayPool.send(event, relayList)
 
             // wakes up all the other relays
-            relayPool.reconnectIfNeedsToORIfItIsTime()
+            reconnect(true)
         }
     }
 
diff --git a/quartz/src/commonMain/kotlin/com/vitorpamplona/quartz/nip01Core/relay/client/pool/RelayPool.kt b/quartz/src/commonMain/kotlin/com/vitorpamplona/quartz/nip01Core/relay/client/pool/RelayPool.kt
index 7c969c6ab..d91cb08d9 100644
--- a/quartz/src/commonMain/kotlin/com/vitorpamplona/quartz/nip01Core/relay/client/pool/RelayPool.kt
+++ b/quartz/src/commonMain/kotlin/com/vitorpamplona/quartz/nip01Core/relay/client/pool/RelayPool.kt
@@ -28,7 +28,6 @@ import com.vitorpamplona.quartz.nip01Core.relay.client.listeners.RelayState
 import com.vitorpamplona.quartz.nip01Core.relay.client.single.IRelayClient
 import com.vitorpamplona.quartz.nip01Core.relay.filters.Filter
 import com.vitorpamplona.quartz.nip01Core.relay.normalizer.NormalizedRelayUrl
-import com.vitorpamplona.quartz.utils.TimeUtils
 import com.vitorpamplona.quartz.utils.cache.LargeCache
 import kotlinx.coroutines.flow.MutableStateFlow
 import kotlinx.coroutines.flow.StateFlow
@@ -71,17 +70,7 @@ class RelayPool(
 
     fun getRelay(url: NormalizedRelayUrl): IRelayClient? = relays.get(url)
 
-    var lastReconnectCall = 0L
-
-    fun reconnectIfNeedsToORIfItIsTime() {
-        if (lastReconnectCall < TimeUtils.oneMinuteAgo()) {
-            reconnectIfNeedsTo()
-
-            lastReconnectCall = TimeUtils.now()
-        }
-    }
-
-    fun reconnectIfNeedsTo() {
+    fun reconnectIfNeedsTo(ignoreRetryDelays: Boolean = false) {
         relays.forEach { url, relay ->
             if (relay.isConnected()) {
                 if (relay.needsToReconnect()) {
@@ -91,7 +80,7 @@ class RelayPool(
                 }
             } else {
                 // relay is not connected. Connect if it is time
-                relay.connectAndSyncFiltersIfDisconnected()
+                relay.connectAndSyncFiltersIfDisconnected(ignoreRetryDelays)
             }
         }
         updateStatus()
diff --git a/quartz/src/commonMain/kotlin/com/vitorpamplona/quartz/nip01Core/relay/client/single/IRelayClient.kt b/quartz/src/commonMain/kotlin/com/vitorpamplona/quartz/nip01Core/relay/client/single/IRelayClient.kt
index 76b562722..dc2f6e268 100644
--- a/quartz/src/commonMain/kotlin/com/vitorpamplona/quartz/nip01Core/relay/client/single/IRelayClient.kt
+++ b/quartz/src/commonMain/kotlin/com/vitorpamplona/quartz/nip01Core/relay/client/single/IRelayClient.kt
@@ -34,7 +34,7 @@ interface IRelayClient {
 
     fun connectAndRunAfterSync(onConnected: () -> Unit)
 
-    fun connectAndSyncFiltersIfDisconnected()
+    fun connectAndSyncFiltersIfDisconnected(ignoreRetryDelays: Boolean = false)
 
     fun isConnected(): Boolean
 
diff --git a/quartz/src/commonMain/kotlin/com/vitorpamplona/quartz/nip01Core/relay/client/single/basic/BasicRelayClient.kt b/quartz/src/commonMain/kotlin/com/vitorpamplona/quartz/nip01Core/relay/client/single/basic/BasicRelayClient.kt
index 03ebbcf1e..ed95cf216 100644
--- a/quartz/src/commonMain/kotlin/com/vitorpamplona/quartz/nip01Core/relay/client/single/basic/BasicRelayClient.kt
+++ b/quartz/src/commonMain/kotlin/com/vitorpamplona/quartz/nip01Core/relay/client/single/basic/BasicRelayClient.kt
@@ -387,10 +387,10 @@ open class BasicRelayClient(
         }
     }
 
-    override fun connectAndSyncFiltersIfDisconnected() {
+    override fun connectAndSyncFiltersIfDisconnected(ignoreRetryDelays: Boolean) {
         if (!isConnectionStarted() && !connectingMutex.load()) {
             // waits 60 seconds to reconnect after disconnected.
-            if (TimeUtils.now() > lastConnectTentativeInSeconds + delayToConnectInSeconds) {
+            if (ignoreRetryDelays || TimeUtils.now() > lastConnectTentativeInSeconds + delayToConnectInSeconds) {
                 upRelayDelayToConnect()
                 connect()
             }