Fix: Filters onCannotConnect to the relays that sent a req

quartz/src/commonMain/kotlin/com/vitorpamplona/quartz/nip01Core/relay/client/pool/PoolRequests.kt

@@ -265,13 +265,17 @@ class PoolRequests {
         errorMessage: String,
     ) {
         relayState.forEach { subId, state ->
+            // These are all my subs.. need to figure out which relays have them
+            val subs = desiredSubs.get(subId)
+            if (subs != null && url in subs.keys) {
                 desiredSubListeners.get(subId)?.onCannotConnect(
-                message = errorMessage,
                     relay = url,
+                    message = errorMessage,
                     forFilters = state.lastKnownFilterStates(url),
                 )
             }
         }
+    }
 
     fun sendToRelayIfChanged(
         subId: String,