feat(notifications): dispatch from LocalCache for all delivery sources

The NotificationRelayService consumes events directly into LocalCache, which
made EventNotificationConsumer's hasConsumed dedup check short-circuit every
subsequent push-notification path. As a result, no notifications fired while
the service was active.

Rework the notification pipeline so every delivery source (FCM, UnifiedPush,
Pokey, active relay subscriptions, NotificationRelayService) feeds LocalCache
and a single dispatcher observes it for notification-relevant kinds. Foreground
suppression is scoped to MainActivity (PiP/Call activities keep notifying),
with carve-outs for CallOffer and WakeUp so time-sensitive events always fire.

- Add NewEventMatchingFilter observable primitive alongside
  EventListMatchingFilter for per-event emission (no list accumulation).
- Add LocalCache.observeNewEvents<T>(filter) backed by the new observable.
- Add MainActivity.isResumed flag flipped in onResume/onPause.
- Add NotificationDispatcher that observes LocalCache for GiftWrap,
  EphemeralGiftWrap, PrivateDm, LnZap, Reaction, Chess, and WakeUp.
- Replace EventNotificationConsumer.consume / findAccountAndConsume with
  consumeFromCache, which skips the hasConsumed check (the observer itself
  provides first-delivery semantics) and gates non-priority kinds on
  MainActivity.isResumed.
- Rewire FCM/UnifiedPush/Pokey receivers to feed LocalCache directly.
- Wire the dispatcher into AppModules lifecycle.

commons/src/commonMain/kotlin/com/vitorpamplona/amethyst/commons/model/observables/NewEventMatchingFilter.kt

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+package com.vitorpamplona.amethyst.commons.model.observables
+
+import com.vitorpamplona.amethyst.commons.model.Note
+import com.vitorpamplona.quartz.nip01Core.core.Event
+import com.vitorpamplona.quartz.nip01Core.relay.filters.Filter
+
+/**
+ * Emits each new event that matches the given Nostr filter, one at a time.
+ *
+ * Unlike [EventListMatchingFilter] / [NoteListMatchingFilter], this does not
+ * accumulate a list — it simply calls [onNew] per matching event as it is
+ * inserted into the cache. Useful for reactive event-triggered pipelines
+ * (e.g. notifications) that need per-event delivery without list overhead.
+ */
+class NewEventMatchingFilter<T : Event>(
+    private val filter: Filter,
+    private val onNew: (T) -> Unit,
+) : Observable {
+    @Suppress("UNCHECKED_CAST")
+    override fun new(
+        event: Event,
+        note: Note,
+    ) {
+        if (filter.match(event)) {
+            onNew(event as T)
+        }
+    }
+
+    override fun remove(note: Note) {}
+}