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Test 03 (wn creates a group, invites Amethyst) was failing at the operator-visible level — "I don't see Interop-03 on Amethyst" — with no clear signal in the Amethyst logcat because no kind:1059 welcome gift wrap ever arrived. Root cause: when wn invites Amethyst it fetches A's kind:10050 inbox list and publishes the welcome gift wrap there. Amethyst's built-in DM inbox defaults advertise auth.nostr1.com + relay.0xchat.com, which wn (connected only to the five harness public relays) cannot reach. Unless the operator manually adds the harness relays to Amethyst's DM Inbox list, the gift wrap lands on relays the reader isn't subscribed to, and the invite is silently dropped. Confirmed empirically by adding wss://nostr.bitcoiner.social (one of the harness relays) to Amethyst's DM Inbox list and watching Interop-03 appear on the next wn create. Update `instruct_amethyst_setup` to make the DM Inbox step explicit and call out the specific failure mode it prevents. Also add a nudge to verify NIP-65 + kind:10050 were actually republished after the relay list edits.