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Introduces the data model + in-memory dedup/eviction logic the participant grid (Tier 2 #1), hand-raise queue (T1 #5), and listener counter (T1 #8) all consume. RoomPresence — one peer's most recent kind-10312 snapshot. Equality is by pubkey alone so a Set or Map swap on heartbeat update doesn't double-count when only the timestamp changes. `RoomPresence.from(event)` projects every presence tag, with conservative defaults for absent ones (handRaised/publishing default false; muted stays null to distinguish "didn't say" from "explicitly false"; onstage defaults TRUE so pre-onstage clients still render as speakers). RoomPresenceAggregator — `apply(event)` dedupes by pubkey, keeps the most recent createdAt (out-of-order events can't overwrite newer state). `evictOlderThan` is the staleness sweep — caller drives the cadence (typically a 60 s tick passing `now - 6*60` to evict on >6 min of silence). Tests cover: tag projection, the absent-tag defaults, dedup on same pubkey, out-of-order non-overwrite, multi-pubkey isolation, eviction window, and the pubkey-only equality contract. The amethyst-side LocalCache wiring + listener-counter UI come next in their own commit.